Make your very first letter to your Russian girl shine. This is your chance to make a new friend who could become an important part of your life. Remember that the very first impression about you will affect your future communication and it is this impression that the girl will always remember.
Follow the below instructions and warning tips, based on many years of online Russian girls dating experience and you can be sure that success will find you very soon.
Instructions:
o STEP 1: Be friendly and polite. It's so important to show your respect to the girl by using friendly and polite words in your letter. Avoid nicknames and phrases like: "Hey baby" or "My hot girl" in your very first introductory letter, it's better to make a pleasant compliment for her instead. Don't worry if you really like using these words you can do it a bit later. Just wait for the girl to open up for you.
o STEP 2: Keep your tone upbeat. Your letter should reflect your great mood and optimism. Never share your problems, difficulties and complaints in your first letter. This will scare a Russian girl away. Show her how happy and cheerful you are. Understand that negativity is a major turnoff for most Russian girls in your introduction letter. In the contrary, being positive is like a magnet. Here's how one person actually began his letter: "To be quite honest, I have been putting this off as long as possible. I have friends who use dating web sites and have had some terrible dates." This begs to ask, "what are you doing here?" Now contrast that to this introductory letter: "I've heard online Russian girls dating is a great way to meet awesome girls and that's why I want to meet you." Which one of these letter intros is more attractive? The one who wants to date "losers" or the one that wants to date "winners"? Psychologically everyone wants to be a winner. Therefore in your first letter, avoid anything negative. Be positive.
o STEP 3: Share information about yourself that you think Russian girls will find interesting. Check the girl's profile, find out about her hobbies and interests. Remember that it's so great if she finds out that you two have something in common.
o STEP 4: Tell the girl who you are and what you are about. Avoid speaking about your disadvantages in the very first letter. In the contrary tell her how great and wonderful you are. But it's important to know where to stop, otherwise your story will turn into boasting and this won't have any positive results. Here are some phrases that will help you to describe yourself in the best way:
- My best friend describes me as...
- I'm happiest when I'm...
- Here's what you'd find if you looked around my place...
- A great day in my life would include...
- The last great book I read was...
- The last great movie I saw in a cinema was...
- My favorite season is...
- The color I wear most is...
- If you asked me what I'm wearing, I'd say...
- My favorite on-screen love scene is...
- The music that moves me most is...
- Today in my car I was listening to...
- Last Saturday night I...
- The last vacation I went on was...
- The most adventurous thing I've ever done was...
- I'm happiest when I'm with someone who...
o STEP 5: Include information about your age, education and career. In accordance with statistics these three things are the most important to learn about for 80 % of Russian girls.
o STEP 6: Mention your favorite hobbies, pets, children or anything else that might unearth a shared interest with in your new friend.
o STEP 7: Avoid talking about controversial topics. Not in a first letter. Discussions and debates can be really interesting thing to share in letters, but only when you feel that the girl has become closer to you and has opened up.
o STEP 8: Take care not to overwhelm the girl with too much information. Revealing a little bit each time will pique the reader's interest. Remember that there must be a little bit of mystery not only in a girl but in a man as well. You'll reach great results if you make your lady wait for the next chapter of your story impatiently.
o STEP 9: Ask the girl questions so that she can respond. If you speak only about yourself in your letter this won't help you at all. Remember that it's so important to have a dialog instead of a monologue.
o STEP 10: Let your personality show by your choice of words and the descriptions you use.
Tips & Warnings
o Remember not to share too much too soon. Wait until a girl knows you before you air your family problems and secrets.
o Use careful judgment when deciding how much information to share with a stranger. Always be cautious when it comes to revealing personal information.
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